- emmerjoy posted this
There's no better way to get to know someone, than reading their thoughts. This here, is a testament of my life, through experience, I've attained knowledge and understanding. And to the best of my ability, and through observation, I'd like to share with you....life through my eyes...
..to love and be loved..there's no better gift..
I've lived my adult life, dedicating it to those whom I love. I've always felt content to put the needs of others before my own, and well...it was exhausting.
When do we draw the line and when does it become selfish?
I've always liked doing things for people. I live a simple lifestyle, my wants never exceed my needs, and I'm very independent. Prideful, some may say, but what I've learned is that "if you want things done properly, sometimes you've gotta do it yourself." This attitude has taken it's toll and has made me, not only O.C.D, but has worn me out emotionally, physically and mentally. There's always something that needs to be done, and not enough hours in the day to do them.
So beginning this new chapter in my life, I've realized that I've got to make some changes. Although it may sound selfish, I'm going to start taking care of my needs, my priorities before I dilvuge in helping others. I've invested too much time on assisting everyone else that I've neglected my own needs.
So step aside world....the old Emerjoy is out, and the new is in..
....sometimes you've gotta burn bridges, and learn to swim....
....Any fool can satisfy multiple women for a short period of time. It takes a real man to satisfy one woman for the rest of her life.....